What it used to be like.
“Selfish and inconsiderate habits have kept the home in turmoil.” Big Book p.82
What it’s like now.
“Since the home has suffered more than anything else, it is well that a man exert himself there. He is not likely to get far in any direction if he fails to show unselfishness and love under his own roof.” Big Book p.127
I know the feeling of both sides of this chip. What it’s like now is a much better place to be!